3 Things to do Immediately you Lose a very Good Opportunity

You have just lost an extremely great opportunity due to silly mistakes or making wrong decisions and it makes you to feel disappointed or sorrowful. You wish such opportunity could emerge again so you can correct your mistakes. Without doubt, you're deeply regretting and it can result in depression or low-selfworth as you might begin to see yourself as a monster or failure. 

Fortunately, regrets can be stopped and mistakes, rectified. Here are three things you should exercise;

1. Accept defeat (To win, you must surrender): The first thing to do is to accept the fact that you can't change what has happened, it's in the past already. But, the consequence of losing such opportunity can be controlled in the present with a positive mindset. Consider the worse fate you dodged rather than the better fate you missed.

2. Move on: Give yourself a second chance, forgive yourself and forget your loss. Regret is a sign that you're paying attention, which means your focus is still intact as you've detected the problem. Move on to solve such problem, let the "we move" attitude spring to life!

3. Fix things: Moving on, you've got to fix up. Be honest about where the fault lies and start fixing up from there. Whatever went wrong needs fixing (if it can still be fixed). Seek help from those who have ventured into the same field of opportunity in the past or those who have faced similar challenges for advice. 

Stop sulking, stop regretting. It can also happen that you heat up yourself unnecessarily, on things or situations that are not your fault. Mistakes are useful in your self improvement and sometimes they aren't. The wisdom is actually in knowing the difference between such mistakes. 

Have a nice weekend❤

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